How can I help him quit smoking? -
He smokes less than b4 as he saw that i dislike this. But whenever he gets a chance he smokes.
Its not his own belief that he should leave smoking. Emotional diarhheas works for a while, but i seriously need a permanent change. Please help.
What Mike H says is very wise. Generally it is not useful nor appropriate to push someone-s choice toward something. To leave his own believe system-s choice can be for him a more harmful thing than continuing smoking.
Again, doing your own choices is a sufficiently tough task, eventually this gets better results on other-s life than anything.
just make him understand how much you and your family people love him. tell him the pros and cons of smoking and how it affects and ruins ones health and whole family. his smoking habits may be highly disastrous to himself. allow him to think and indulge him in spiritual prayers, definitely, once he starts praying silently to God Almighty, he will feel highly relaxed and cool, that he himself throw his cigarettes away and preach others too to stop that deadly habit. nothing is impossible, try you will win.
Don-t knock yourself out trying to get a person to quit. When a person really wants to quit, they will. I hear this from a lot of former smokers. My very first girlfriend was a smoker and I didn-t like it and it was just one more thing to fight about.
Tell him everytime you think about smoking if you get someone to give you a b$#w job, he-ll either be too tired to smoke or really really happy and give it up all together. I know I would
it would also be a natural stress reliever which sometimes causes people to smoke
hes not going to quit until he is ready. Encouagement will help but it wont make him stop.
When he is ready.. help him itll likely be the most difficult time in his life and his temper may get short. arguments and pestering him druing this period is a big fat NO. get ahold of your nerves because his will be shot , most non smokers will never understand that.. but thats what im asking you to be is completly understanding