How can i make him quit smoking pot? -
i know he knows that he need to stop not much for me but for his little girl. he keeps saying its the last blunt but then the next day its another last blunt. some say its not addictive but i do think it is. cuz he changes when hes not high, crabby and sorta bi-polar.
i need some ways to try to make him stpo. i love him i dont want to leave him, but i cant also make a family with a lazy pot head.
If you guys aren-t married yet, but plan to marry. Tell him something along these lines: You love me right? If you do, why are you ruining your body and making things difficult? I want you and only you at our wedding, and after that and forever! If you keep smoking, all that-ll be left of you is the smell of pot in the air...and i love you too much to let you do that...If you can-t quit smoking for me- and for our daughter, I-m taking it as a sign that you can-t commit to our family- to me.
If you guys are married....say somethig along these lines: When i married you, i was so filled with love and excitement...but these days you-ve been filled with nothing but pot and high tempers. Quit or i will
by that last line, i would say you know what to do.
threaten him youre leaving
2 kids died the day before yesterday in a bus accident in Italy. The driver had smoken pot and just lost control of the bus. The road was straight and no other car involved. So it was the pot who killed them. This should give him a thought.
If he-s a crabby guy when he-s not high, then all the pot is doing is covering up his real problem -- so whatever it is that he won-t face that makes him crabby comes up fast when he-s sober, and it makes him irritable and angry because he has to deal with it.
Pot isn-t the problem.
His refusal to deal with the real issues in his life - that-s the problem.
Okay, it-s probably that he doesn-t want to stop and I can-t think of a reason why he should. Marajuana is unjustly illegal and many so called -facts- are spewed out about the drug, but in fact it has many medicinal and other beneficial uses wheras alcohol is about a thousand times more dangerous and addicting. He doesn-t have to be lazy just because he smokes pot.
His crabby attitude and what you describe as -sorta bipolar- is due to the fact that marajuana relaxes some people and reduces their anxiety and tension. You take that away and he-ll feel less relaxed and more likely to snap at you.
He-s lazy because he is lazy not because he smokes pot. Talk to him about taking care of his responsibilities and if he wants to smoke up a couple times a week, so what? As long as he is being responsible the guy deserves a break.
If you are both unwilling to compromise on this, then you should leave him. He needs someone a little more rational and you need someone a little more straight edge.
just tell him how many less brain cell he has left and doing something just to make you feel better is not the answer why not ask him to get help and he will not stop ask him how does his kid feel daddy smokes tell him to do it for the kid why don-t you and his kid leave for a while and let him clean up please understand I do not mean this against you but to help you out I hope
See if you can take him to a rehab/ care centre for people with drug ****** brains to demonstrate to him what it can potentially do to him. i knew a 16 year old boy for whom it was the catalyst for serious psychotic episodes, violence... he drooled, slurred his words all the time due to the damage excessive smoking had done to his brain- irrepairable damage. this guys going to have to be in a care facility for the rest of his life. Before meeting him i had smoked pot occaisonally, afterwards i swore i would never do it again despite how much i liked how it made me feel. the likelihood of such a thing happening is extremely low, but the consequences if it does are catastrophic